Explore a path to intimacy and connection, as an individual or together as a couple.

These sessions help you understand your current relationship with intimacy - and support you to develop the tools for greater confidence, connection, and embodied sexual expression.

The Somatica Method

The Somatica® Method is an experiential approach to sex, intimacy, and relationships that helps individuals and couples build deeply fulfilling, connected intimate lives.

Developed by the Somatica Institute in San Francisco, this method focuses on practicing intimacy as a skill, not just talking about it. Sessions are experiential and may include guided exercises, communication practices, and embodied awareness — adapted for online sessions via Zoom.

Somatica supports clients to:

identify and articulate their core desires
build clear communication, boundaries, and consent
develop emotional and physical safety in the body
regulate the nervous system
grow confidence in giving and receiving pleasure

Clients may also explore curiosity around desire, fantasy, or kink in a grounded, consent-based way, where the focus is on self-understanding rather than performance or labels.

This work is especially helpful for challenges such as low desire, performance anxiety, mismatched libidos, or feeling disconnected from the body. Change happens through lived experience, allowing insight to land not just in the mind, but in the body.

Real Issues, Real Support

With over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy, sexual challenges, and connection, I know how to guide people toward real, lasting change.

Repairing Ruptures in Relationships

Low or Mismatched Libido

Challenges Communicating Needs, Boundaries, or Desires

Feeling Unsure How to Move Toward Deeper Intimacy

Premature Ejaculation

Shame, Guilt, or Anxiety Around Sex and Intimacy

Feeling Stuck in Repetitive Patterns Around Sex or Closeness

Performance Anxiety

Difficulty Giving or Receiving Pleasure

Wanting More Depth, Ease, or Authenticity in Intimate Connection

Difficulty Staying Present During Intimacy

Emotional Disconnection Within a Relationship

Feeling Disconnected From Your Body

Erectile Dysfunction

Difficulty Trusting in Moments of Intimacy

Work With Me

All work begins with a free 30-minute consultation. This is a relaxed, no-pressure chat where you can share what’s been coming up for you, ask questions, and get a feel for how I work - a simple vibe check to see if we’re a good fit. From there, we can talk through what kind of support might suit you best and whether working together feels right.

Single Session

Ideal if you’d like to dip your toe in, explore a specific issue, or simply prefer to book one session at a time. This option gives you a taste of the work without any ongoing commitment.

$120.00AUD

3 Session Package

Best suited for those who feel ready to make a little more commitment. A three-session package allows space to build continuity, practice new skills, and begin creating real shifts over time.

$360.00AUD

$720.00AUD

6 Session Package

Ideal for those wanting deeper support and sustained change. This option offers the space to work more thoroughly with patterns around intimacy, communication, and embodiment, allowing insights and practices to truly integrate.

Book Your Free Consultation

Before working with Kindah my relationship with my husband was in bad shape. Six years in and frustration with our sex-life was at an all-time high.

My partner had the problem of always finishing too soon, had no control and was uncomfortable even talking about it much less getting help with it. I’d been putting up with not just unsatisfactory sex for years, but also a partner who had built up walls around his problem and I just didn’t know how to reach him or fix it. I was able to get him to just have a conversation with Kindah and the rest is history. Kindah made us both feel so comfortable, it was much easier than we both thought to start unpacking our ‘stuff’ and start re-building our connection. Kindah not only helped us to re-build our communication style and connection but through the touch and massage trainings we learned how to be in sync with one another, learned how to cultivate much greater connections and pleasure but also it helped my husband to last longer! He can now go for as long as we both want thanks to the incredible tips and trainings we received. We now have the most amazing love life and I’m finally having the kind of intimacy and sex I’ve always dreamed of. We can’t thank her enough!
Alex & Louise D
I have been working with Kindah and am only a little ways in and am already blown away by all that she has helped me with when it comes to intimacy and strengthening my communication and overall sex life with my husband.

For someone who has had past sexual traumas, I did not realize how much I carried that into my current marriage and she has really helped me to uncover that and shift my perspective and actions, leading me and my husband to be more solid and intimate than ever before. After 8 years of being with someone, you would think it would get old, but I feel we are just getting started and I love this new way that is bringing us closer and opening us to new things about ourselves that we would have never known otherwise. I highly recommend working with Kindah as she is incredible and so easy to talk to and makes you feel so comfortable. Her personality alone makes her perfect for guiding you on this journey with no shame or guilt. Thank you Kindah for all you have done for us!
—Mary D.
Prior to working with Kindah, I believed I was beyond help. I had been struggling with low sex drive and erectile dysfunction for roughly two years, which took a toll on my confidence and made it difficult to maintain harmony with my wife.

Needless to say, our marriage was on the rocks. To my amazement and great relief, I discovered real help and recovery was possible. I noticed an almost immediate improvement in both my outlook and sex life with my wife. The real transformation began when my partner and I embraced and practiced the techniques Kindah introduced. With Kindahs’ guidance, we adopted new ways of communicating and re-discovered our love for intimacy, without the pressure to perform - something Kindah strongly emphasized for both of us. Gradually and joyfully, my wife and I rebuilt our connection. Kindah helped me overcome my erectile issues, which turned out to be rooted in performance anxiety. We can’t thank our coach Kindah enough. I dread to think where our marriage would be without her help steering us back in the right direction. With much gratitude,
Phil & Ella
In all my previous relationships and if I’m being honest the fact that I could not last long enough to satisfy my partner’s respectively was probably the reason why they all broke down.

Kindah created such a comfortable space for me to to talk about my problem which I felt deep shame about and gave me real, workable solutions which made the most positive changes I had no idea were even possible. Strategies that turned my sex life into .. I can’t even begin to describe how incredible. My hopes were not only fulfilled, they were superseded - by a long shot! I can’t thank her enough and of course I highly recommend her as a coach if you’re looking to solve intimacy issues of your own.
Brian D.

If you’re ready for better intimacy, book your free consultation now.